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Teen Shoplifting

Last updated on June 16, 2017 by TT Staff Leave a Comment

teen girl shoppingShoplifting is one of the most common crimes in America, and it is an activity in which many troubled teens engage. According to the National Learning and Resource Center, there are over 27 million shoplifters in America, meaning that approximately 1 in 11 people is guilty of shoplifting. The National Learning and Resource Center also reports that over half of adult shoplifters claim to have started the habit in their teens, so if you suspect that your teen could be shoplifting, it’s important to end the practice now to prevent it from carrying over into their adult life. Below you will find three of the most important basic facts about teen shoplifting:

1. Your teen could be guilty.

Studies indicate that shoplifting affects a very wide segment of society. Men are just as likely to shoplift as women, and rich teens shoplift just like their poorer peers. Research suggests that shoplifters are usually unlikely to engage in other types of illegal behavior, which means that your seemingly well-behaved and communicative teen could be shoplifting when he or she leaves the house to spend time with friends. Therefore, it’s important to talk to your son or daughter about the consequences of shoplifting, regardless of whether or not you suspect that they’re actually guilty of the crime.

2. Teens usually shoplift for silly reasons…

The reasoning behind teen shoplifting is generally very simple: They wanted the item. Often, teens steal from stores because they want to own something which they cannot afford, and this is sometimes related to the desire to fit in with current trends at their school. Some teens shoplift because of peer pressure; their friends engage in the practice, so they feel as if they should do so as well. Other teens shoplift strictly for the rush. The thrill of getting away with stealing something provides a high that many shoplifters eventually learn to crave. Many people claim, in fact, that shoplifting is equally as addictive as some drugs.

3. …But some teens shoplift for more serious reasons.

Although most teens shoplift because they want new possessions or because they like the feeling of being rebellious, some teens shoplift because of serious underlying problems. One possibility, although rare, is kleptomania, a disorder in which a person cannot resist the urge to steal. Kleptomania is usually characterized by its apparent randomness, with kleptomaniacs many times stealing things that are completely useless to them and are often even discarded after the theft has taken place. Because kleptomania is a serious condition, it should be treated by professionals.

Another possible motivator for teen shoplifting is a drug habit. Some teens shoplift on a regular basis in order to obtain the means to support their drug habit. Especially if the teen is unemployed or if they are using a particularly expensive drug (such as cocaine), shoplifting may be the only means by which they can finance their drug use. If your son or daughter has been caught shoplifting and they are also exhibiting some of the symptoms of teen drug use, then you should seek help from a professional immediately.

If you discover that your teen has been shoplifting, it is important that you confront him or her with calm emotions and a level head. Although you may feel angry, betrayed, or blindsided, especially if your teen is one of the many teens who are otherwise very well-behaved, becoming worked up is certainly not the best course of action. Your teen is probably shoplifting for a simple reason, but there could be a surprising underlying cause that is much more serious than the act of shoplifting itself. Therefore, before rushing to conclusions and harsh punishments, you should have a serious discussion with your son or daughter to determine the reasons behind their actions.

Filed Under: Behavior & Emotions

Cocaine Use in Teens

Last updated on May 26, 2017 by TT Staff Leave a Comment

snorting boyCocaine use in teenagers is a very, very troubling subject, a subject that should be taken seriously by all parents of teenaged children. If you suspect that your son or daughter might be using cocaine, then it is very important that you seek the necessary advice and assistance. Below you will find the three most important basic facts about cocaine use in teens:

1. It does happen.

Although cocaine is not the most popular drug among teenagers, because it is such a dangerous and unpredictable drug, any cocaine use among the teenaged segment of the population is cause for distress. Statistics indicate that about six million people over the age of twelve have used cocaine at least once in the past year, and approximately one in twenty high school seniors have used cocaine in the past year. Even younger students have tried cocaine, with over three percent of 10th graders having used cocaine within the past year. Part of cocaine’s popularity is rooted in the fact that it can be taken in a number of ways: Cocaine is usually snorted, but it can also be injected or smoked. If you are worried that your child could be using cocaine, it’s important to learn more about the drug’s signs and symptoms.

2. The short term effects are obvious.

If you think that your teen could be using cocaine, then look for the obvious signs and symptoms. The short term effects of cocaine- that is, the effects that occur immediately after taking the drug- are rather distinct. You would be hard pressed to confuse the signs of a teen high on cocaine with the signs of a teen high on another drug like, for example, marijuana. Cocaine is a very powerful stimulant, and its effects include increased blood pressure, constricted blood vessels, and dilated pupils. Teens who use cocaine often report increased mental alertness, increased energy, decreased appetite, euphoria, a feeling of supremacy or invincibility, and increased body temperature. They also report more negative immediate effects, such as paranoia, restlessness, anxiety, and irritability. The high that teens get from snorting cocaine usually wears off in a short time period of 30 minutes to two hours, and during this time your teen is likely to be talk very quickly, sniff often, seem absentminded, lose track of their thoughts, and act very hyper. Also, because cocaine is so expensive, teen cocaine users often resort to stealing in order to finance their drug habit.

3. The long term effects are terrible.

If you suspect that your teen is a cocaine user, it is vitally important that you intervene as soon as possible. Cocaine is one of the most highly addictive drugs available, and as such, it can be extremely difficult for your teen to stop using once their cocaine use has become habitual. Long term cocaine use can result in a huge number of serious medical problems, including an increased risk of seizures, strokes, respiratory problems, heart attacks, and brain damage. These long term side effects are in addition, of course, to the possible harm caused by incidental side effects like violent behavior, needle sharing (amongst teens who inject their cocaine), and unprotected sexual encounters.

Cocaine use in teens is a major issue, one that concerned parents should take very seriously. If your son or daughter has exhibited the signs and symptoms of a cocaine habit, it is crucial that you address this problem immediately. Stopping cocaine use is a long and arduous process, one that will likely result in intense frustration and emotional pain, so do not attempt to go it alone. Instead, seek professional help.

Filed Under: Addictions

Keys to Preventing Underage Drinking

Last updated on May 21, 2017 by TT Staff Leave a Comment

With all the bad news about underage drinking, some good news is refreshing: The minimum legal drinking age (MLDA) of 21 seems to greatly reduce alcohol consumption both among underage youths and among adults of legal age. More action is needed, however, in order to further reduce the instances of underage drinking and their related consequences both for individuals and for society at large.

Why are alcohol control laws even necessary?

Included in the large body of evidence documenting its effectiveness, increasing the MLDA to age 21 MLDA has caused alcohol-related motor vehicle accidents among underage youths to decrease by an average of 16 percent. The Task Force on Community Preventive Services encourages reduction of alcohol sales to minors through even greater enforcement of laws that prohibit it.

Another recommendation includes increasing alcohol excise taxes and decreasing alcohol outlet density in the form of liquor licenses. Yet another proposed recommendation is to reduce the exposure of underage young people to alcohol marketing. The Surgeon General and Institute of Medicine approve such strategies and continue to research and evaluate was to increase their effectiveness. The reason for promoting such policies is clear: The states with greater alcohol control have reduced rates of adult and college binge drinking.

How important is it to have the community’s support for alcohol control?

Despite the risks involved in underage drinking and the laws in place to help reduce them, many adults contribute to the problem instead of being part of the solution. Many ignore the problem altogether, while others refrain from confronting other adults who serve alcohol to teens.

Certain sub-cultures seem to produce more underage drinking than society in general, and team sports are one such sub-culture group. Overall, teen athletes drink more often and consume more on each occasion than their nonathletic peers. As younger athletes try to fit in with their older teammates, the average age at which teens first start drinking has fallen from age 17 in 1965 to age 14 today, yet few adults are willing to confront the problem.

From parents to coaches, many adults see teen drinking as “none of their business,” but this type of attitude sends kids a mixed message. Underage drinking will continue to plague our society as long as all the adults in American communities fail to make it their business.

How important is it to have parental support for alcohol control?

Some parents actually provide alcohol for their teens and their kids’ friends; in fact, more than ¼ of underage drinkers obtain alcohol from family members, and 1/10 access alcohol from their parents’ liquor stash. Even those parents who say they’d never enable underage drinking often choose to ignore the empty bottles found after teen parties.

While many parents may think it’s a losing battle, Penn State research suggests otherwise: Parents can influence their teenagers to change how they think and behave regarding alcohol. What’s more, research suggests that changing teens’ attitudes can be as easy as sitting down for a simple conversation. So talk to your teens about the dangers of alcohol. Studies indicate that these conversations result in a 30 percent reduction in underage drinking. The “Parent Handbook for Talking to Teens About Alcohol” produced by Mothers Against Drunk Driving (MADD) can be a helpful tool in guiding your discussion.

Even if you talk to your teens about alcohol abuse, statistically speaking, it’s highly probable that your teen could still experiment with alcohol. Although this type of behavior should not be excused or encouraged, it is nothing to be alarmed about, as teenagers are known for their rebellious (and occasionally poorly-thought-out) behavior. If your teen’s alcohol use has gotten out of control, however, or if they have begun engaging in other types of risky, illegal, defiant, or self-destructive behavior, then it could be time for you to seek help from an outside source.

Filed Under: Addictions, Behavior & Emotions

Teen Ketamine Use

Last updated on May 16, 2017 by TT Staff Leave a Comment

The use of club drugs fluctuates from year to year, and although right now the use of club drugs like ketamine is down, it is still important for parents to know the facts about this drug.

What is it?

Ketamine, also known as “Special K” and “K,” is a club drug that is a dissociative anesthetic. This drug, originally designed for human use, is now widely used by veterinarians for surgery on pets. Ketamine is similar to PCP, DXM, and nitrous oxide.

What does it look like?

Ketamine is a powdered substance, generally white or off white in color. This can make it very difficult to discern from other white powdered drugs like cocaine, MDMA, and even some types of heroin. Ketamine can also come in pill form when intended for human use.

How is it used?

Ketamine is most commonly snorted, but it can also be injected.

What are users looking for?

Ketamine separates perception from sensation in all doses. With low doses, users are looking for a dreamy feeling with numb extremities. Keep in mind that ketamine is a dissociatve anesthetic, meaning at full effect it takes the user out of their own body. In high doses, ketamine can be hallucinogenic. Users can feel far from their body.

Is it addictive?

There has been evidence that ketamine can cause cravings and a tolerance. Some users will binge on ketamine like amphetamine users do.

Is it illegal?

Ketamine is illegal as a Schedule III drug in the United States. To fall into this category, a drug must meet the following three criteria:

  1. Has a potential for abuse less than the drugs or other substances in Schedules I and II
  2. Has a currently accepted medical use in treatment in the United States
  3. May lead to moderate or low physical dependence or high psychological dependence

Just because a drug is Schedule III, however, doesn’t mean that it isn’t highly illegal. A teen found in possession of ketamine can still face serious legal consequences.

How common is teen ketamine use?

Very few teens are using ketamine, according to reports. About one percent of varying age groups are using the drug.

How can I tell if my teen is using drugs?

There are many signs of teen drug use, most of which are explained here. Things to look for include:

  • Moodiness
  • Depression
  • Truancy
  • A new peer group that exhibits bad behavior
  • Secretiveness
  • Being unusually tired
  • Drop in grades
  • Possession of drug paraphernalia (needles, bongs, rolling papers, bowls, grinders, cut up straws, rolled up dollar bills, etc.)

If you suspect that your teen could be engaging in drug use or other dangerous behaviors, it could be time for you to seek help from an outside source. One great source of help for at-risk teens are Christian boarding schools. At these boarding schools, students are rehabilitated through a time-tested and individualized program consisting of both discipline and reward. Students receive the love and guidance they need to transition from a troubled teen into an emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually healthy young adult.

Filed Under: Addictions

The Facts About Ecstasy

Last updated on May 6, 2017 by TT Staff Leave a Comment

A recent study says that ecstasy use in teens is on the rise, and that means it’s something parents have to be on the lookout for. Nearly 3 million teens have admitted to trying the “love drug,” and use of ecstasy has risen 71 percent since 1999. While drug use is generally down in teens, ecstasy is still attracting more teen use than ever.

Ecstasy is currently as popular as cocaine, crack, heroin, LSD, and methamphetamine. (Marijuana remains the most popular drug with 41% of teens admitting to its use). It is very important for parents to know just as much about these drugs as their teens do, so here are the facts about ecstasy.

Don’t ecstasy and MDMA refer to the same thing?

No. MDMA generally refers to the pure form of the drug. Unfortunately, drug dealers are “cutting” their ecstasy with other drugs like ephedrine, DXM (the active ingredient in cough syrup), ketamine (an animal tranquilizer), caffeine, cocaine, and methamphetamine. These mixes are very dangerous and can be extremely harmful to your teen.

What does ecstasy look like?

Ecstasy generally comes in pill or powder form. If it is in pill form, it will often have different name brand logos imprinted to symbolize the dealer or type of ecstasy. Pills often come in several colors. If your teen is in possession of pure MDMA, then you will find a fine white powder. Unlike cocaine, which tends to be more “cakey” in texture, MDMA is usually finer and more fluid, more similar to baking soda than cooking flour.

How is it used?

Ecstasy is generally swallowed. It can also be snorted, injected, or even inserted as a suppositor. Pure MDMA powder is usually snorted or “parachuted.” (Parachuting refers to the process of wrapping up powder, usually in a small piece of toilet paper, to create a makeshift pill so that a drug that is normally intended for insufflation can be taken orally instead.)

Is it addictive?

While it is not directly addictive, 60 percent of users feel symptoms of withdrawal after heavy use because the drug is a stimulant.

What are users looking for?

Many MDMA and ecstasy users are looking for a sense of euphoria. This is often coupled with self acceptance and compassion for others. (MDMA was first used in therapy to lower inhibitions.)

How can I tell if my teen is using drugs?

Experts say that parents can look for the following signs of drug use:

  • Being involved in a peer group that has trouble with the law
  • Truancy
  • Dishonest behavior
  • Lower performance in schools
  • Lack of interest in previously enjoyed activities
  • Moodiness

These signs are specific to Ecstasy:

  • Possession of objects commonly used to stop jaw clenching, such as pacifiers, lollipops, candy necklaces, straws, etc.
  • Possession of mentholated vapor rub
  • Sore jaw (from clenching teeth)
  • Confusion
  • Depression
  • Severe anxiety
  • Headaches
  • Dizziness
  • Panic attacks
  • Paranoia
  • Vomiting or nausea (from hangover)

How can I tell if my teen is currently on MDMA or ecstasy?

There are many symptoms of MDMA and ecstasy use, including

  • A trance-like state
  • Blurred vision
  • Chills or sweating
  • Confusion
  • Faintness
  • Paranoia or severe anxiety
  • Being transfixed by sights and sounds
  • Unconscious clenching of the jaw or teeth grinding
  • Being very affectionate.

You  might also look for signs that your teen has been at a rave, a party at which many individuals consume ecstasy at the same time. Signs of rave attendance include wearing brightly-colored costumes, possessing glow sticks or glowing jewelry, and bringing copious amounts of water.

If you suspect that your teen could be engaging in drug use or other dangerous behaviors, it could be time for you to seek help from an outside source. One great source of help for at-risk teens are Christian boarding schools. At these schools, students are rehabilitated through a time-tested and individualized program consisting of both discipline and reward. Students receive the love and guidance they need to transition from a troubled teen into an emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually healthy young adult.

Filed Under: Addictions

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